What’s What!

Hi, loves! Happy Friday 🙂 normal posts are resuming again here on my blog, but I’ve really enjoyed taking the past week to read, listen, learn and grow. I shared this post with a bunch of information on Black Lives Matter and links in that you can check out if you want to know a little more and find out how to help.

How are you doing right now? The weight of everything happening in the world is a little heavy and I’ve been limiting my social media time over the past few days because of it. I’m also very… nervous… about life returning to normal. Well, whatever normal looks like now. Here in the UK our ‘non-essential stores’ are opening again this coming week and I just don’t understand why that’s a priority when we’re still at risk level 4. I certainly won’t be rushing to go shopping! On top of that I’ve felt super headachey and just off all week. I swear this week feels like it’s lasted 40 days. Anyone else?! This week lockdown life has got me like:

BUT. It’s Friday! It’s the weekend! Matt is just getting ready to leave for work, I’m snuggled under my blanket with a cup of vanilla chai feeling so cosy. Let’s get into a little what’s what in my life! 

What I’m Eating:

So it may not be Summer weather right now (seriously, where has the sun and heat gone?!) but Matt and I are eating all of the Summer dinners and I couldn’t be happier about it. Most evenings we’re enjoying a variation of subs, fajitas, tacos, pasta salads, burgers or fish. We love salmon A LOT – I typically serve with roast potatoes, rice and a feta salad – but I’ve been switching up how I make it recently. I made a honey chilli glaze the other week that was so delicious we’ve had it three times since. My mum even liked it and she is a super picker eater! I’ll share a ‘recipe’ on the blog soon. It’s so easy I don’t know if it can be classed as a recipe, but it’s delicious and you need to try it! 

What I’m Disappointed About:

My No Buy Month is going very well, so well I’m making money back! I ordered a couple things at the end of May that arrived this past week and were not what I expected. First off I got a ‘vintage’ Levi’s denim jacket from Depop that was just disgusting and not at all what I was told. The seller was super rude and anyone who knows me IRL knows that me and confrontation do not mix. It was my first (and hopefully last) bad experience using Depop and I was horrified. Thankfully PayPal stepped up with a refund to fix it! I had also ordered a pair of Veja trainers after lusting after them for over a year – I went for the Campo style – and I was SO BUMMED with the quality. They’re a sustainable, ethical brand and I swear I’d only heard good things about them. I don’t know if I somehow got a ‘bad’ pair but the leather looked unfinished and the laces were marked. I had been so excited but I’ve sent them back to Office 😦 I still really want a pair of Nike Air Force Ones (I know everyone has a pair, but they’re just so cute) so maybe at the end of the month I’ll purchase those instead! 

What I’m Excited About:

Matt and I found the CUTEST spot around 45 minutes away from where we live and I can’t wait to spend hot, sunny weekends exploring everything around there! If the sun ever comes back, that is. I’m in a really good routine working from home – if I haven’t already mentioned enough, I really love it – and Matt has been working from home a couple days out of the week too, so we’re spending the most time together we ever have. Matt got a new job a couple months ago and he (for the first time ever) has weekends off now! We used to pack everything possible into the random weekend days Matt got off work but now we’re able to do whatever, whenever and I’m so thankful for it. It’s a shame we can’t go too far this Summer but we’ve decided we’re going to explore as much of the North East as we can, especially this cute new spot, and we have a HUGE bucket list of things to do and places to see. The best part is, they’re right on our doorstep!

What I’m LOL’ing At:

Okay so I know I talk about this podcast all. the. time. but it’s for good reason! Shagged, Married, Annoyed seriously makes me CRY with laughter every single week, and I swear the episodes get funnier each week! The podcast is hosted by Chris & Rosie Ramsey; one is a professional comedian and one is married to her. Ha! (For anyone confused, Chris is the professional comedian. But Rosie is funnier. I said what I said). A new episode is released each Friday but I save them for my weekly grocery shop on a Saturday morning. I wear my AirPods (I’m obsessed) and giggle my way round the store, anything to make me forget how stressful getting groceries is right now is a good thing. Rosie posts the funniest Insta stories too! She & Chris have the most adorable son named Robin (my dad’s name!) who just melts my heart and is always on her stories. If you need a little light and laughter in your life, pull up SMA on your Spotify. I promise you won’t regret it! I’m even listening to the old episodes (again…) some afternoons whilst I work.

Looking super cute with my frizzy bed hair there from laying down, it’s a LOOK!  Yes we’re eating cream cakes and also yes, we have basically the same glasses. They’re Ted Baker and I’d just like to point out I had mine for almost two years before Matt copied me…

What I’m Watching:

This week Matt and I started a new show… Space Force! It’s laugh out loud funny, kinda silly and Steve Carrell is the main character. I mean what’s not to love?! We love The Office SO MUCH and honestly anything with Steve in is just good TV. I’m also still re-watching all of Modern Family, I’m on season 8 and not ready to be on season 9. I really think it’s one of the best modern shows ever made, I just love every single character and it brings me so much joy! As always, Matt and I’s go-to shows for the evenings we don’t have much time is Friends or The Office reruns. Duh! We’ve also watched a ton of Ted Talks educating us on the Black Lives Matter movement over the past two weeks, there are sooo many amazing ones you can check out here.

What I’m Excited About:
Everything I’ve been planning and working on for the blog! I’ve got lots of beauty and fashion content coming up and I think I’m going to delve into the topic of no buy’s/low buy’s a little too. I’ve become a much more conscious clothes shopper over the past few years – you can read more in this post and this post – and I really want to share my favorite finds, tips, experiences etc on creating a wardrobe full of things you love. Be sure to subscribe to my blog (> you can fill in your email, the box is right over there!) so my posts get delivered right to your email inbox. Oh and also… I’m giddy McDonald’s reopened! We grabbed Quarter Pounder meals for dinner last night and I’m so excited we can start going for weekly late night McFlurry runs again (our fave tradition pre COVID-19).

What I’m Reading:

I started reading White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo last week and I flew through it in four days. Considering I’m still working full time, working on my blog, trying to enjoy down time with Matt and you know, sleep, that’s veryyy quick for me to read a book! I truly think this book should be a requirement to read in high school as it covered everything! It made me so aware of myself and the people around me, and fuelled my passion to always be an ally for the Black community even more. Like many, I really want to educate myself more on Black Lives Matter and I think that was a really good starting point, if you haven’t already you need to read this book! I have just started reading Love You, Love You Not by Jo Watson which was a recommendation from Shay last month. I literally only started last night but I already know it’s my perfect kind of book! Tbh, I love everything Shay recommends 🙂 I actually have tons of books I’m excited to read downloaded onto my Kindle right now and I really love that feeling, it makes me more motivated to read because I have so many options afterwards. Also I’m still crazy obsessed with my Kindle… if you’re on the fence about getting one, don’t be! They’re the best things EVER 🙂 

What I’m Looking Forward To:
Autumn. I know, I know. It’s JUNE. But it’s been super cold this past week and I’ve been pulling out my oversized sweatshirts, cosy cardigans, my favourite leggings and even fluffy socks. I’m ready for it to be September… Every year I count down to the beginning of September and Matt thinks I’m crazy but I love everything about that time of year. It feels like more of a fresh start for me than January does, I can’t wait to eat/drink/smell all things pumpkin and of course #fallfashion is my favourite. Also it’s kinda the beginning of the build up to Christmas (okay I know, I’m actually crazy) but this year has been so weird, let’s just skip to Christmas mode now!  

I’m off to slowly get ready and run a few errands before my work day starts in a couple hours. I might even stop by the drive thru at Costa for a little Friday treat, I still have tons of gift cards from Christmas! 🙂 Friday’s make me so happy. I’m also having a work night IN with my coworkers tonight – we’re doing a CSI Mystery Escape Room on Zoom and I’m so excited!

Have a wonderful weekend, friends! 

-G x

Spring Style Wishlist

Hi, loves!

Today’s post is a little different for me; instead of making list upon list in the Notes app on my phone of the items I’d like to pick up for the current season, I’m sharing them on my blog instead. I have talked about my strong opinions on fast fashion a lot in recent months – there’s a little more context in this post and this post – but I still love shopping, and it’s not something I’m going to ever completely quit. It’s unrealistic to think that to be sustainable I can never shop the high street – there’s actually some great quality times for great prices, you just have to be mindful. For me, the main points I’m looking at when it comes to purchasing new clothes, accessories or shoes, is to buy better, buy less, and buy sensibly.

Over the past few years I’ve found it SO hard to dress for Spring and Summer. I’m comfortable wearing shorts, skirts or dresses on holiday in a hot country, but the thought of wearing them in England filled me with dread. I’ve always been conscious that I look bigger in Summer clothes (my own insecurity, not something anyone else should ever think!) and as a result I’ve spent too many hot days covered up. Wearing unflattering baggy clothing during the hotter weather is absolutely something I refuse to do this year! I’m so excited to embrace a little change with my wardrobe, and enjoy the weather and fun days with my boyfriend and our friends, whilst wearing weather appropriate clothing.

I’m obsessed with all things leopard print, cute floaty blouses and tan sandals (I got the cutest pair yesterday, thanks to my friend Jessy encouraging me to buy them!) but I’m wanting a few new bits and pieces to update my wardrobe. All of the items featured in this post are things I think I’m missing currently, and additions I hope to make over the next few months that will easily fit with items I already own. Everything featured in this post will transition perfectly into the Summer months too, and be items I can hopefully get wear out of for years to come.

New York Print Top – £20, Brandy Melville
This would be perfect with Mom jeans (my new style love), skinny jeans, a fun maxi or pretty much any pair of shorts I own. The bright colours make me so happy, it’s such a simple and cute style. I love that it’s a fun twist on what would typically be a band tee, and Brandy Melville clothing is so soft! I’m just waiting for their Aspen sweatshirt to come back into stock so I can place an order.

Denim Paperbag Waist Shorts – £32, River Island
I don’t actually need to ‘wish’ for these because when we were shopping last week Matt picked them up as part of my birthday present. They fit perfectly; they’re a Mom style so they’re fitted on the waist (although loose enough that I can eat whatever I want on our upcoming all inclusive holiday…) and not at all tight around the thigh. They’re literally my perfect pair of shorts, I’m so happy and grateful Matt bought them for me!

Veja Trainers – £94.99, Office
I have had my eyes on these since before Christmas, but as I knew I’d be living in boots throughout the Winter, I held off on purchasing. I really need to replace my Converse as they’re almost worn through, it’s kind of embarrassing to wear them at this point! Veja are an amazing sustainable brand and their quality is outstanding, I am so excited to purchase these to wear for years to come. I also really want to pick up these Superga trainers, they are so cute and simple, and will come in so handy for the Spring and Summer!

Tortoiseshell Ring Cami – £12, Topshop
I tried this cami on whilst we were shopping too, and wish I had bought it, it’s so cute! Paired with pretty much anything, it would be perfect for those warm Spring days and super hot Summer days, and it reminds me a lot of a swimming costume Emma Hill wore in her Kos holiday vlog last year, that I loved. It’s super inexpensive and looks so pretty, I think it would be great with shorts or jeans, or over a bikini during the day on holiday.

‘Mumbai’ Backpack in ‘Koala’ – £115, Matt & Nat
Around three years ago I purchased a mini Whistles backpack and I still use it now, but I would just love a neutral colour backpack that’s a little more appropriate for the warmer weather. Matt & Nat are a great sustainable brand, and all of their products are made from vegan leather. I always gravitate towards black accessories, but I’m determined to buy more beiges, browns and neutrals this year. This could be worn with anything in my wardrobe and it’s more than big enough to keep my essentials in for the day, including a water bottle, as well as anything Matt ends up throwing in! (Does anyone else’s boyfriend use your bag as their own?!) I’m really tired of switching between a larger bag for work, and a crossbody for weekends, so having a bag I can use all the time would be great!

Halter Neck Sundress – £22 @ ASOS
This dress looks so light and beautiful, and I know it will be perfect for an evening in Croatia with Matthew. I love the colour, the length, the gorgeous wooden effect buckle and the open back! I’m all about not wearing a bra, especially in the warmer months. I think this would be such an easy dress to throw on for an afternoon at the Quayside, BBQ’s with our friends and hot Summer days, paired with a pair of cute flat sandals or even those Veja or Superga trainers for a casual look.

Silver Bar Necklace – £99, Missoma
I’m a little obsessed with Missoma, dainty silver jewellery, and layered necklaces, and this little beauty ticks every one of those boxes. My wishlist on Missoma is actually a little crazy, there’s so many beautiful jewellery pieces I love and I’m forever adding to my growing collection. I’m planning to treat myself with birthday money from my grandma (she’s always super generous on our birthdays!) and I know this will fit perfectly with my current pieces.

Blue Floral Midi Skirt – £28, ASOS
I have just started getting into the midi skirt trend in the past few months, and I’m absolutely loving trying new styles. I’m hoping to wear midi skirts in place of jeans A LOT this Spring/Summer, they’re effortless and relaxed, and just make a simple t-shirt look 10 x better. I think this would look so cute paired with a plain white tee, flat tan sandals and the silver bar necklace from Missoma. *insert all the heart eyes emoji here*

Thank you so much for reading! I hope this gave you a little inspiration if you’re looking for a few new pieces to update your Spring/Summer wardrobe. What is your favourite piece I shared? What’s on your wishlist for the upcoming warm months?

-G x